Comments for 10 Signs Of a Cheating Spouse

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by Jason N

Jason N — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:04:19 +0000

yes no mater what happens it ‘s your friend your looking out for.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by Lilly

Lilly — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 08:40:46 +0000

It depends on how long they have been together and how long you have been friends. If that person confides in you , then you need to let them know about the spouse. If you do decide to tell the other person make sure you have proof and let them know you are just trying to look out for them.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by Debbie

Debbie — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 14:12:05 +0000

YES! he or she needs to know!

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by da whizard

da whizard — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 11:10:47 +0000

DEPENDS ON HOW CLOSE A FRIEND.
The mesenger is always shot.
You may lose your friend since you will associated with the tragedy. There is a chance you may not recover the friendship. Defintely read the riot act to the spouse and don”t treat them as a friend. You can drive the spouse crazy enugh that way by reminding them you know at every occasion that it may cause them to slip up and be discovered. Also if other people knew like a parent or someone realted to your friend, word could get to them that way.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by ~!Cherry Girl!~

~!Cherry Girl!~ — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 22:13:54 +0000

I would definitely tell them!

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by ~Shortstuff~

~Shortstuff~ — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:37:45 +0000

Tell the friend if you think they’ll believe you. Some will already have had an idea that cheating was going on. Get your facts straight before you say anything.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by ikki

ikki — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:49:08 +0000

no, i better mind my own business

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by Appolnia_76

Appolnia_76 — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 22:17:31 +0000

As hard as it is, I would tell them. Even if they get mad at the messenger, you’re saving them from the risk of getting a disease from the mistress, and from blaming you if they found out you knew and didn’t tell them.

Of course, there’s also the option of confronting the spouse and telling them to fess up if they want to try and salvage their marriage. Better coming from them.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by rambutan0316

rambutan0316 — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 22:29:34 +0000

Yes, that is the best thing to do. I would not want my friend to be hurt by the evil spouse.

Comment on If you caught your friend’s spouse cheating on them, would you tell your friend? by alexis_0724

alexis_0724 — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 19:14:46 +0000

I have been in this situation before. It’s tough. What I did was tell my friend that I caught him. She didn’t believe me and it ruined our friendship. She ended up finding out later, but by that time it was too late. I didn’t want to be friends with someone who didn’t trust me. If I could redo the situation, I would tell the cheater that I caught him. Just see what happens next. Whatever you do… don’t get caught in the middle.