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Cheating Spouse Revenge

admin — Tue, 22 Jun 2010 07:04:40 +0000

Fraser Wheaton asked:

In this article, we will discuss cheating spouse revenge and taking action on getting revenge on a cheating spouse. We all know that spouses, both male and female can be cheating ******. In fact, your spouse could be cheating on you this very second. How to tell if your spouse is cheating is a topic for another guide. Here we will discuss what to do with the cheaters when they have the sheer lack of self respect, respect for you, and the utter selfishness of not being able to keep their pants up!

First of all, make sure the suspected cheater has actually been cheating. The last thing you want is a big scene or even a divorce over an affair that never occurred. Some extra leg work now will avoid headache and stress if you get it all wrong.

Once you’re certain that your spouse is cheating, it is now time for cheating spouse revenge. You need to stay calm, if you’re too angry, you will mess it all up, stay level headed, or you’ll end up in a drunken state and you’ll just embarrass yourself. We don’t want this; you want to embarrass the cheaters for their betrayal and utter selfish behavior.

After you’ve taken some time to come to terms with what has been going on, you need to cook up a plan of action – Take your revenge on a cheating spouse.

Lets rule out murder for now, although the thought may have crossed your mind, and to be honest, its understandable if its been a long lasting relationship, family members have grew close, and there are children involved, lets not go this far, we don’t agree with killing, and I am sure “Jerry Springer” wouldn’t agree with this either.

What we will call upon for our cheating spouse revenge is sheer embarrassment. What you need to do is pretty simple and it should work if planned out right. Wait until your spouse is with a group of friends or amongst a group of so called important people to them. You could even do this with family members. Take a photo of 2 **** people, just go to a soft porno site to do this, get the picture developed, and make sure it looks half way decent as a fake photo.

Now, once the cheating spouse is with these people, its time for attack, go over accuse them of cheating, of course, the spouse will deny it, just like the cheating little dogs they are, however, you have proof, yes, now wave this proof around yelling I have proof, I have proof, however, be a little clever here, do not let anyone see the photo head on. Now, the time has come to walk out from where ever the spouse is, leave them shocked, embarrassed, and humiliated. Perfect.

Another way of getting revenge on a cheating spouse, one that we class as extreme, but it is probably one of the most dramatic ways of showing that you really don’t care is to simply cheat back, but do it in style. Plan for your spouse to be there when they see you do this, get them to come home early, whatever it takes, make them walk in on you having a threesome, bingo, nothing more to be said on this, its going to be pretty upsetting seeing your partner making it out with multiple partners. When they attack you for this act, remember, it wasn’t you who broke the trust and love!

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How To Tell if Your Wife is Cheating

admin — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 00:00:42 +0000

Cheating is the worst form of destruction to your relationship or marriage; it is already considered a betrayal of the vows they took when they got married. The discovery of the act of cheating by the other half can either break the marriage or make it stronger depending on the strength of their love for one another.

Cheating generally means that you are not fully satisfied with your current partner or you feel that something is missing in the relationship. If you were completely in love and happy within your relationship, why it might happen that your partner have an affair?

Trust is a big reason, not of your partner, but yourself. Probably for some time you have sensed something is different or questioned the change of behavior in your partner.

Nobody deserves to be cheated on, no matter what state your marriage is in and if you believe your partner is having an affair now is the time to check it out and do a little investigation just to be sure.

Start by looking for the obvious things such as a change in the way your partner dresses, a sudden desire to look good, a change in work patterns, an unusual interest in the gym, secrecy over phone calls or emails, a loss of intimacy in your marriage, lack of sexual interest or distance between you that never used to exist. In the worst case you may spy her.

A cheating wife can cause much emotional trauma, not to mention the harm it could cause a family.

Here are some important clues that might help you to find out if your wife is having an affair.

1. Changes in appearance and attitude. She has a sudden preoccupation with her appearance. She is more interested on how she dresses; go often to a hair salon and even to gym, even if this wasn’t her main priority before.

2. Lessened intimacy. If in the past you used to share everything with your wife and then suddenly she seems distanced and clams up when you try to discuss intimate things, it could mean that she has already distanced herself emotionally and mentally from you. She is suddenly frigid and loses any interest in doing anything with her husband.

3. She’s being secretive. She’s no longer sharing her daily events with you. She might avoid you because she feels guilty. Don’t get paranoid and suspicious, ask her if everything is okay and tell her she’s been acting differently lately.

4. Disinterest in family. If your wife is no longer excited to meet you at the door from work there must be a problem here. Or when your partner feels the sudden need to go out try to find a reason to accompany her. If she comes up with a reason that she had to go on her own push the issue, not too much but just enough to see if she becomes more uncomfortable.

5. Less arguing and fighting. She used to get angry if you didn’t want to come out with her and her friends, but now everything you do is all right by her. Once upon a time, your every move had to be premeditated, but now all the small things you used to mess up aren’t enraging her. This could be a good thing, but you wonder why she no longer cares.

6. More phone and internet. In the last time she speaks a lot at the telephone using a low voice or whisper on the phone and hangs up quickly. Maybe she set up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it. Watch out because she might buy a cell phone and doesn’t let you know. Ask her if she is being true with you and if she becomes accusatory then it is obvious that she is cheating you.

7. She’s always late. In the past she never came home late but now this happens more and more. Her explanation is that she had to stay more at the office because she has a lot of work to do. Or she goes to the store and comes home four hours later. This is really a reason to worry.

Cheating spouses often look and act guilty, give a general feeling that something isn’t right. They try and avoid meaningful conversations, keep everything at a general and non intimate level.

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If you look for something hard enough you will begin to believe you’ve found it. If you look for signs that your car’s going to break down, you’ll start hearing rattles and sqeaks. If you look for signs of a cheating spouse, those telemarketing calls that hang up on your answering machine will take on a sinister quality. See where this is going? If you look for racist meaning behind every word or action, you’ll find it. Even when it’s not really there to be found.

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admin — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 02:30:37 +0000

jackie j asked:

want admit to the truth to anything i ask him. he would call her sometimes 30 times a day everyday. he says he would think about her every now and then, he opened up to her emotionally, he says he knew she would be sexually open to anything, because he can read people. never showed a sign of a guilty conscious. i ending up checking the cell phone bills and numbers and started investigating and that is how i found out. how sad. would you say he was emotionally and sexually involved with this other person. he was willling to jeopardize our marriage over her. i feel like even now he thinks about her and misses her it’s been about a year and half ago, but it still eats at me everyday, not knowing the emotional side not so much sexually. he slept with her after 1 wk of just meeting her a total stranger. how cheap did not even use protection. would you ever trust him again, how can you go on i don’t think i will ever forgive him he ruined my life

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I was wondering what are the signs of a cheating spouse?

admin — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 02:24:06 +0000

Jonah asked:

What are some of the excuses that a cheating person may come up with? Why do people cheat?
There are some great people in the world who don’t and I know no one expects this to happen to them, but really anyone can do it. I’m sure they’re alot of people who never thought their other half would do it to them, but it happened anyway.

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dirtman911 asked:

For months I had a sick feeling my wife was cheating on me. Most of the cheating signs were present. A friend suggested I place a digital VOR in her car and see what happens. Well, I got the shock of my life. In the course of one workday my spouse blew the guy twice (1st time on way to office and 2nd time on way home) and screwed him during her lunch hour). All extracurricular activities were conducted in her suburban. She admits the recording sounds like her but she knows in her heart she was alone all day. I love my wife but feel as if she is spitting in my face again and again with her continuing lies.
FYI I heard wife tell Jason to sit tight and wait for her as well as at the end of the day on the ride home ask Jason if “Mr Secret could come out to play and could he get hard again? Jason advised she could go down on him and find out. She concurred and polished Jason’s pole.

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Cheating Spouse?

admin — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:39:14 +0000

j_c_reynolds asked:

I have a honest question and I am requesting honest opinions. Me and my husband have been together for 2 years, and when we first started out he cheated on me with a another woman. This I found out about 2 months after it happened by being nosey. So I told him if he wanted to continue what we have here, he needs to cease all contact with her, and we need counseling. So 2 years have gone by and there hasnt been a sign of this woman, and he’s been trustworthy in everyway possible. We are not having any problems, but I woke up a couple of hours ago, and had an uneasy feeling. He stayed at home all day and as of about 2 or 3 months ago he is locking his computer now. When I woke up around 12cst, he got ready for bed. logged onto his computer after he went to bed and there was an im from this same woman from 2 years ago saying ” Did you like when I licked you”. Now seeing this made my heart drop because he told me that he doesnt have n e contact with her whats so ever. What am I to assume?
Why would she ask him something that happened 2 years ago. Yeah I’m nosey but not for no reason.
We also have two seperate computers so it’s hard for me to see exactly what he is doing on his. We have dsl and are on a network. Anyone have any ideas how I can catch this bastard, if he is cheating?

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Is she cheating on me or am I reading the wrong signs?

admin — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 05:37:07 +0000

gdoorcee asked:

I’VE BEEN CHEATED ON B4,AND AS ALL VICTIMS O0F THAT ACT WE KNOW THAT THAT IS A FEELING YOU NEVER 4GET.AM I RIGHT?SO RECENTLY I BEGINNING TO FEEL THAT SHE’S UP TO SUMTHIN.JUST 4 ME (US)2B ON THESE COMPUTERS ASKING EACH OTHER IF OUR SIGNIFICANT OTHERS R CHEATING IS SIGNS ENOUGH AREN’T THEY?WE ALL KNOW HOW WE WERE IN THE BEGINNING OF THE REALLATIONSHIP,THINGS CHANGE BUT HOW DO THEY GET TO THE CHEATING PART?SHE’S CORPORATE AND I KNOW FOR A FACT WHAT GOES ON IN THERE!!!!!!!!!!I HOPE YOU ALL DO TO.MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE.CORPORATE THEY SPEND MORE TIME 2GETHER IN THE OFFICE THEN ON THE WEEKENDS WITH THE SPOUSE!!AM I RIGHT?I DON’T HAVE ANY DESIRES FOR ANY OTHER WOMAN AT ALL,HOWEVER IF SHE IS THEN I’M AT THE POINT IN MY LIFE WERE I AM MATURE ENOUGH TO B TOLD AND I’LL WALK AWAY LIKE A MAN.BUT FOR IT 2B DONE BHIND MY BACK!!!!???THIS IS MY FIRST QUESTION BUT I DON’T WANT TO BELIEVE THIS IS HAPPENING TO ME.I JUST CAN’T SHAKE IT THOUGH.WHOEVER IS READING THIS PAY ATTN.CUZ IT’S MORE.I CAN SHARE SOMECLUES

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Need to catch a cheating husband?

admin — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 23:40:26 +0000

Kate S asked:

Can anyone recommend a software that you put on your computer to track websites, IM’s, emails, etc. in order to catch a cheating spouse? I’ve seen many on the internet but I don’t want to waste money on a scam. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

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admin — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 18:14:54 +0000

Blue asked:

Ok – I heard a (real) story about a wife & Girlfriend -
When the husband picks fights with wife for stupid reasons, or suddenly need space, or “doesn’t feel well,” won’t be socialable, suddenly needs to be alone but dont’ knwo for how long
Is this a strong sign that he’s cheating?
Now the husband was going away on family vaccation and suddenly started to behave the same with the Girlfriend – but says “I love you” but need space….
Mind you , I don’t personaly know the person, I heard story from another observer…. So is this how cheaters work???

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