my spouse was cheating on me for almost a year only after 3 mths of marriage he?
Tuesday, July 29, 2008 2:30Posted in category Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered
jackie j asked:
want admit to the truth to anything i ask him. he would call her sometimes 30 times a day everyday. he says he would think about her every now and then, he opened up to her emotionally, he says he knew she would be sexually open to anything, because he can read people. never showed a sign of a guilty conscious. i ending up checking the cell phone bills and numbers and started investigating and that is how i found out. how sad. would you say he was emotionally and sexually involved with this other person. he was willling to jeopardize our marriage over her. i feel like even now he thinks about her and misses her it’s been about a year and half ago, but it still eats at me everyday, not knowing the emotional side not so much sexually. he slept with her after 1 wk of just meeting her a total stranger. how cheap did not even use protection. would you ever trust him again, how can you go on i don’t think i will ever forgive him he ruined my life
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want admit to the truth to anything i ask him. he would call her sometimes 30 times a day everyday. he says he would think about her every now and then, he opened up to her emotionally, he says he knew she would be sexually open to anything, because he can read people. never showed a sign of a guilty conscious. i ending up checking the cell phone bills and numbers and started investigating and that is how i found out. how sad. would you say he was emotionally and sexually involved with this other person. he was willling to jeopardize our marriage over her. i feel like even now he thinks about her and misses her it’s been about a year and half ago, but it still eats at me everyday, not knowing the emotional side not so much sexually. he slept with her after 1 wk of just meeting her a total stranger. how cheap did not even use protection. would you ever trust him again, how can you go on i don’t think i will ever forgive him he ruined my life
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John F says:
July 29th, 2008 at 4:48 am
Dump the a$$hole already, and move on.
Tab H says:
July 31st, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Time does help the situation – - but not much – it takes forever to rebuild lost trust.
Do the both of you keep lines of communication open and talk about this and how it is still affecting you?
Did you seek any outside counseling?
Did you do anything to help heal or did you just find out – he ended it and you are expected to figure out how to deal with your emotions on your own?
Todd B says:
August 1st, 2008 at 8:20 am
Never, ever, ever, ever, ever would I stay with someone who cheated on me and you shouldn’t either. You’d be a fool to yourself if you stayed with him. Dump him. Move on. And don’t look back.
Katy S says:
August 4th, 2008 at 5:46 pm
He will do it again……..you cannot trust someone who does not care what he had done to you. You can however forgive him in time……..just dont trust him
Ann S says:
August 5th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
If you felt this way you should have left him when it happened. If it happens again you should leave. These days (not speaking religiously) people get divorced because they don’t have trust etc. Why are you staying? I’d do some research to see if it’s still going on. P.S. Your life isn’t over.
Paul W says:
August 6th, 2008 at 7:15 pm
It really depends how much in love with this person you are. Time can and does heal the wounds but certainly the memory does not go away. It is sad that this is eating you up and it will continue to do so as long as you let it. It would be easy to call this guy lots of names but I dont think that is what you need right now. You put your everything into your relationship and were badly let down. It would be difficult to trust this person again and trust is so important in a relationship. It will take a long time for him to prove to you he can be trusted. Of course you will have lots of questions and some of which may never be answered for you. It really depends on what you want to happen and where you want your relationship to go. If you think he is worth it then you will find a way to cope with the hurt and pain you have been put through. You only have one other option really and that is to leave this man and get on with your life. I could suggest Marriage counselling, but both parties must be totally willing to be honest with each other. being immature does not give him an excuse to break your relationship or your heart and I am sure there have been many nights when you have cried yourself to sleep, only to find the next day nothing has changed and the thoughts will not go away. He has not ruined your life unless you allow him to, all it was is just a hick-up, you have a long and beautiful life to look forward to, perhaps not with this person though. I hope everything works out for you one way or the other. Good luck.
johntbui1 says:
August 9th, 2008 at 2:09 pm
what’s ur question again?
ziggy says:
August 9th, 2008 at 3:25 pm
leave the sucker, if he cheated on you after one week of marriage, you can bet it will happen again and again! As hard as it may be, you need to move on with your life and put him in the past. You deserve better!