Comments on: my spouse was cheating on me for almost a year only after 3 mths of marriage he? http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/ How To See Through The Lies Mon, 13 Oct 2008 20:04:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: ziggy http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1858 ziggy Sat, 09 Aug 2008 15:25:55 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1858 leave the sucker, if he cheated on you after one week of marriage, you can bet it will happen again and again! As hard as it may be, you need to move on with your life and put him in the past. You deserve better! leave the sucker, if he cheated on you after one week of marriage, you can bet it will happen again and again! As hard as it may be, you need to move on with your life and put him in the past. You deserve better!

]]> By: johntbui1 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1857 johntbui1 Sat, 09 Aug 2008 14:09:10 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1857 what's ur question again? what’s ur question again?

]]> By: Paul W http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1856 Paul W Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:15:31 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1856 It really depends how much in love with this person you are. Time can and does heal the wounds but certainly the memory does not go away. It is sad that this is eating you up and it will continue to do so as long as you let it. It would be easy to call this guy lots of names but I dont think that is what you need right now. You put your everything into your relationship and were badly let down. It would be difficult to trust this person again and trust is so important in a relationship. It will take a long time for him to prove to you he can be trusted. Of course you will have lots of questions and some of which may never be answered for you. It really depends on what you want to happen and where you want your relationship to go. If you think he is worth it then you will find a way to cope with the hurt and pain you have been put through. You only have one other option really and that is to leave this man and get on with your life. I could suggest Marriage counselling, but both parties must be totally willing to be honest with each other. being immature does not give him an excuse to break your relationship or your heart and I am sure there have been many nights when you have cried yourself to sleep, only to find the next day nothing has changed and the thoughts will not go away. He has not ruined your life unless you allow him to, all it was is just a hick-up, you have a long and beautiful life to look forward to, perhaps not with this person though. I hope everything works out for you one way or the other. Good luck. It really depends how much in love with this person you are. Time can and does heal the wounds but certainly the memory does not go away. It is sad that this is eating you up and it will continue to do so as long as you let it. It would be easy to call this guy lots of names but I dont think that is what you need right now. You put your everything into your relationship and were badly let down. It would be difficult to trust this person again and trust is so important in a relationship. It will take a long time for him to prove to you he can be trusted. Of course you will have lots of questions and some of which may never be answered for you. It really depends on what you want to happen and where you want your relationship to go. If you think he is worth it then you will find a way to cope with the hurt and pain you have been put through. You only have one other option really and that is to leave this man and get on with your life. I could suggest Marriage counselling, but both parties must be totally willing to be honest with each other. being immature does not give him an excuse to break your relationship or your heart and I am sure there have been many nights when you have cried yourself to sleep, only to find the next day nothing has changed and the thoughts will not go away. He has not ruined your life unless you allow him to, all it was is just a hick-up, you have a long and beautiful life to look forward to, perhaps not with this person though. I hope everything works out for you one way or the other. Good luck.

]]> By: Ann S http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1855 Ann S Tue, 05 Aug 2008 21:40:14 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1855 If you felt this way you should have left him when it happened. If it happens again you should leave. These days (not speaking religiously) people get divorced because they don't have trust etc. Why are you staying? I'd do some research to see if it's still going on. P.S. Your life isn't over. If you felt this way you should have left him when it happened. If it happens again you should leave. These days (not speaking religiously) people get divorced because they don’t have trust etc. Why are you staying? I’d do some research to see if it’s still going on. P.S. Your life isn’t over.

]]> By: Katy S http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1854 Katy S Mon, 04 Aug 2008 17:46:39 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1854 He will do it again........you cannot trust someone who does not care what he had done to you. You can however forgive him in time........just dont trust him He will do it again……..you cannot trust someone who does not care what he had done to you. You can however forgive him in time……..just dont trust him

]]> By: Todd B http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1853 Todd B Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:20:36 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1853 Never, ever, ever, ever, ever would I stay with someone who cheated on me and you shouldn't either. You'd be a fool to yourself if you stayed with him. Dump him. Move on. And don't look back. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever would I stay with someone who cheated on me and you shouldn’t either. You’d be a fool to yourself if you stayed with him. Dump him. Move on. And don’t look back.

]]> By: Tab H http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1852 Tab H Thu, 31 Jul 2008 20:30:35 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1852 Time does help the situation - - but not much - it takes forever to rebuild lost trust. Do the both of you keep lines of communication open and talk about this and how it is still affecting you? Did you seek any outside counseling? Did you do anything to help heal or did you just find out - he ended it and you are expected to figure out how to deal with your emotions on your own? Time does help the situation – - but not much – it takes forever to rebuild lost trust.

Do the both of you keep lines of communication open and talk about this and how it is still affecting you?

Did you seek any outside counseling?

Did you do anything to help heal or did you just find out – he ended it and you are expected to figure out how to deal with your emotions on your own?

]]> By: John F http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/lesbian-gay-bisexual-and-transgendered/my-spouse-was-cheating-on-me-for-almost-a-year-only-after-3-mths-of-marriage-he/comment-page-1/#comment-1851 John F Tue, 29 Jul 2008 04:48:51 +0000 http://10signsofacheatingspouse.info/?p=278#comment-1851 Dump the a$$hole already, and move on. Dump the a$$hole already, and move on.

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