Audio recorded wife cheating but she denies everything. Is she heartless, stupid, or mean?
Sunday, July 27, 2008 10:06Posted in category Marriage & Divorce
dirtman911 asked:
For months I had a sick feeling my wife was cheating on me. Most of the cheating signs were present. A friend suggested I place a digital VOR in her car and see what happens. Well, I got the shock of my life. In the course of one workday my spouse blew the guy twice (1st time on way to office and 2nd time on way home) and screwed him during her lunch hour). All extracurricular activities were conducted in her suburban. She admits the recording sounds like her but she knows in her heart she was alone all day. I love my wife but feel as if she is spitting in my face again and again with her continuing lies.
FYI I heard wife tell Jason to sit tight and wait for her as well as at the end of the day on the ride home ask Jason if “Mr Secret could come out to play and could he get hard again? Jason advised she could go down on him and find out. She concurred and polished Jason’s pole.
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse
For months I had a sick feeling my wife was cheating on me. Most of the cheating signs were present. A friend suggested I place a digital VOR in her car and see what happens. Well, I got the shock of my life. In the course of one workday my spouse blew the guy twice (1st time on way to office and 2nd time on way home) and screwed him during her lunch hour). All extracurricular activities were conducted in her suburban. She admits the recording sounds like her but she knows in her heart she was alone all day. I love my wife but feel as if she is spitting in my face again and again with her continuing lies.
FYI I heard wife tell Jason to sit tight and wait for her as well as at the end of the day on the ride home ask Jason if “Mr Secret could come out to play and could he get hard again? Jason advised she could go down on him and find out. She concurred and polished Jason’s pole.
How To Catch a Cheating Spouse
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Sphin C says:
July 28th, 2008 at 7:54 pm
shew blowed the guy?
did she swallower?
do you kiss him through her?
26250403 says:
August 1st, 2008 at 4:58 am
i’m sori 4 u. but i suggest u install a live cam in d car 2 capture all tat b4 exposing her deeds n b4 u make any decision.
CM says:
August 3rd, 2008 at 4:43 pm
I would say heartless. Why are you still with her? Get checked. Who knows what she has given you.
bestofyou says:
August 4th, 2008 at 2:02 pm
if you feel like this after confronting her,then go to a counsellor with the tape and your wife.i believe there are ways of proving if it was really her voice or not.contact those experts fast.
troy w says:
August 6th, 2008 at 10:49 am
Cheatin scum! women like this will lie to you! Ask her to take a polygraph test with you. they are out there for people wanting to know the truth .
BeeBee says:
August 7th, 2008 at 5:06 pm
i feel very sorry for you I understand your pain as I am going through the same thing
I saw sms on my husbands mobile I am guilty because I lloked at his phone he got really angry and has continued to deny that anything has happened even though the sms said otherwise
That started 2 years ago My hubby and I separated 2 weeks ago after 36 years together
I found his denial harder to accept more than he been un faithful. I think if he owned it we could have tried to have resolution God luck I hope you too resolve it
feck_me says:
August 11th, 2008 at 2:14 am
All of the above!
Captainscurvy says:
August 11th, 2008 at 10:24 am
I’d be seriously thinking of divorce if i were you you deserve so much better i know you love her but obviously she doesn’t love you nor does she have any respect for you don’t rush into divorce but you got her on tape she denies it who else could it possibly be in her car seriously how dumb does she think you are her wedding vows obviously don’t mean a thing to her
i love my husband more than life itself I’d never even consider cheating on him we have been together since 1999 and still going strong marriage is about love honesty trust and loyalty and it seems to me your wife has forgotten this good luck hope things turn out for the best for you everyone deserves to be happy even you
reminisence80 says:
August 12th, 2008 at 11:36 pm
I totally understand how you feel. My husband has been having a virtual afair in a game and theres screenshots to prove it. What makes it worse is that Im pregnant.
Im going to talk to him about it and demand it stop or Im gone. I wouldnt stay withher if I were you though.
madamesophia1969 says:
August 14th, 2008 at 4:37 pm
If people are going to cheat they need to make really sure they don’t get caught. And she is stupid for lying. Please go get checked for STD’s asap and every 6 months until the doctor says you can stop. Practice safe sex in the meantime. And if she is telling the truth then she needs to stop leaving the car unlocked or renting it out for quickies.
beentheredonethat says:
August 15th, 2008 at 1:11 am
Years ago, when I was married, I found out that my husband had tapped the phone at home in hopes of finding out that I had been cheating on him. He was just sooo sure of it. And I hadnt been. Nothing, ever. Surprisingly tho, HE had been cheating on ME and was now so insecure. He had somehow managed to reverse his guilt of cheating into suspicion that I had been cheating. The marriage ended shortly after that. You knew in your gut what was going on, and now you have proof. Only you can decide if you are going to stay in this relationship. Of course, she also has to own up and take responsibility for what she has done. In my opinion, If she continues to lie, there is no point in continuing the relationship. I’m sorry, my friend, that this has happened to you.
helen says:
August 17th, 2008 at 5:19 am
i think the question here is…. are you stupid… she was caught out on a digital VCR and still says it wasn’t her, and by the sounds off it you believe her… god think about it, as you know deep down it was her doing those things to another guy…. she has done it once or more and talked her way out of it, she will keep on doing it again and again… LET HER GO as she obviously doesn’t love you any more cause if you love someone you DO NOT have sex again and again with other people.. you know what you should do, go meet someone that will truly love you…. good luck. p.s. don’t put up with this and her lies….. you deserve better..
Slide says:
August 17th, 2008 at 5:41 am
It would be better if you had installed a hidden cam then email it to her family and friends so you would see how you could she deny it .
You love your wife and it seems she doesn’t care about it. Get a life ,divorce her and marry someone decent like you.
caleb6082lol says:
August 18th, 2008 at 6:44 am
what a fucking skank.
Tina says:
August 20th, 2008 at 8:57 am
So what is your question? You caught her cheating…what more do you want? You have two choices. Stay with her and allow her to disrespect you and cheat on you or leave and move on to a new and happy life. It is your decision.
Ryan R says:
August 21st, 2008 at 4:23 am
Well this certainly is an age old questions that really doen’t need answered. You already know the answer here but do not want to accept it. You want to believe you can work it out and establish unconditional trust for that person again so you can be happy in a relationship together, and truly happy. I’m willing to bet that this has never really occured. When some does you wrong like this.. even with the best intentions in mind.. you will not likely ever truly trust them or be happy with them again. You can try to convince yourself that you can be, but the history of human nature would suggest the opposite. I’m always sorry to hear of this situation as I have been there. You just need to realize and except the grieving process. The sooner you do then the sooner you will be rid of your co-dependance which is what you have to do. You have to find you again and then sooner or later you realize.. “what was I thinking, I really am better off” So do yourself a favor and be honest with yourself.. fo that is truly the hardest thing to accept and to acheive. Best of luck to you.