dwanal asked:


My spouse is very suspect. He’s starting to not answer his cell phone when I call him at work, stays over 2 hours at Masonic meetings, has an excuse for why he can’t use his cellphone at work on base, every time we have a conversation he turns it into an argument and blames it on me. He even states that I cook too much. He went to a Masonic meeting in L.A. this weekend , left home around 5am(to carpool), I called him at 3pm no answer, he calls at 5pm. His reason for not calling, again, he could not take the phone in the building. What would you did in this situation to skin this cat?

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josiejo asked:


i had a feeling my husband is cheating..i know just cannot catch him..hired a P.I>, no sucess, taped his emails, no success, i even checked the cell phone..still no sucess..so, do u think everyone eventually catches there cheating spouses?

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Daryl Campbell asked:


The signs may not have been blatantly obvious but they were there. Was it a new perfume or cologne smell you did not recognize? No. But it did appear strange to you that calls to your spouse’s cell phone were on the increase. They also started to occur at more peculiar hours.  
You tried to rationalize it by concluding these calls just come with the territory. Your spouse besides working a very demanding job also has interest in building a business of their own. Or it could be that they have a lot of friends and family who stay in constant contact with them. Nothing wrong with that.
Except where as before they took most of the calls in front of you now they step out of the room once too often. If you happened to approach them unexpectedly, the look on their face may betray nothing but the body language screams, “What are you doing here?” You may not have consciously observed this but there is little doubt that it did not go unnoticed by your instincts.
Even the most brilliant minds that have made a lifetime study on the subject are at a loss to explain the power of instinct. It follows no logical pattern or reasoning process and it doesn’t appear to even be based solely off an emotional response.  
But the stories of it in action are legendary. Somebody who was just about to take a flight somewhere or get it their car to drive down a certain street were suddenly stopped in their tracks when their instincts started going off like an obnoxious alarm bell. But these folks listened and disaster was averted.
In the case of a cheating spouse the instincts can pick up on things which you are not noticing or cannot bring yourself to notice (understandable). For instance there could be a subtle shift in the dynamic of your relationship. You may not have picked up on the distance that appears to be growing between the two of you or even detected the slight chill that has taken over many of your conversations. But make no mistake; it didn’t escape your instinct.
Oftentimes a spouse that has suspicions concerning their significant other’s infidelity will dismiss these notions as just being paranoid or the ramblings of an over active imagination. Anything is possible when it comes to the human mind.
While it’s understandable to want to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt that does not mean in the process you should ever sell your instincts short.  More than trusting your partner, their words or even the reassurances from people outside the relationship, listening to your instincts comes down to trusting in yourself. It’s not trying to break up your marriage but it makes no apologies for its efforts to protect you from harm. 

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Christina Caci asked:


Your sixth-sense tells you your spouse is cheating? You’re probably right. Here are some signs to help you know for sure: Check out the underwear drawer. Is your husband now wearing sexy, silk boxers instead of his jockeys? Is your wife wearing lacy and frilly underpants instead of her regular cotton whiteys? Any sudden change in underwear habits could indicate an affair. Look in the bathroom. Is your spouse paying much more attention their grooming lately? Do they wear cologne that you’ve never seen before, or try something new that makes them look hotter than ever? Look in the car. Have the seats been moved? Are their receipts in the glove box, or a pair of sunglasses someone forgot? Are the CDs in the car different from anything your spouse usually listens to? Consider their exercise habits. Is your spouse suddenly hitting the gym and working on that six pack? Do they take long walks or go for a run every morning? They are trying to look good for someone! Do their friends still come around? If their friends are avoiding you, or if they act evasive when you ask them questions, they might be covering for your spouse and their new lover. Look at the paychecks. Does your spouse’s pay increase in accordance with all the overtime they put in? Or do they work much more than usual and have nothing to show for it? How is the intimacy in your marriage? If your spouse is burying themselves in hobbies or work, that is time they aren’t spending with you. Does your spouse pull away when you hold their hand? Would they rather go straight to sleep than make love? Have they pulled any new sexual tricks lately? If your spouse is cheating, they might bring home new lessons from an illicit lover. If they do something different in bed, you deserve to know where they learned it! Pay attention to their cell phone. Do they make a lot of calls when you are out of earshot? Do they refuse to answer calls while you are in the room? Do they talk in a low whisper, and hang up quickly when you ask who they are talking to? Finally, does your spouse pick little fights as an excuse to leave the house? If your partner is doing a lot of “clearing the head” and driving off at night, there might be someone helping them do that “clearing.” There are many other signs of a cheating spouse. If you recognize any of these, now is the time to dig deeper into the signs of a cheater.

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michelecmof4 asked:


last night at walmart he told me to go to the baby aisle and go get what else i needed that he would be in the hunting section. i went and got some things from the baby aisle and went to find him and he was standing there not looking at anything talking on the phone and seen me but moved toward the back of the store. i walked all the way over there and he had just hung up. I said who you talking to. he said this guys name and said he hung up because it dropped a call. we went to the other side of walmart and called the guy back and stayed on the phone and it didn’t drop the call then. he calls me before he gets off work and asks if i need anything from the store. i wonder does he use this as an excuse. he has went to another aisle and was talking to someone like that before. what should i do to see if he’s cheating.
he has smelled a little funny down there last week and i think he might have given me something. it’s not from not giving him any sex for him to cheat.
he erases calls and messages

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abc asked:


Tmobile cell phone text messaging can another person read what is being sent. I would like to read my cheating spouse sms cell phone text message

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Christina Caci asked:


If your spouse is cheating on you, you deserve the truth! Here are ten signs that something illicit is happening behind your back. Your spouse comes home with little tokens of affection, or presents they seem to care very much about. If they don’t have a good reason for why that present was given to them, you need to know who thought enough of them to give it – and why they care so much about it in particular. Your partner takes trips out of town without you. Maybe you were invited on your spouse’s business trips in the past, but now they want to go alone. What is their reasoning for such an abrupt change? They get flustered when you stop by the office unexpectedly. They never know when you might cross paths with their lover, so they want to keep you as far away from the workplace as possible. Your spouse doesn’t answer their cell phone during times when you know they should be available. Your lovemaking has gone downhill, and you don’t have a good reason why. Are they getting it somewhere else? The same goes for time spent with you. Instead of cuddling at night, your partner now stays up very late on the internet, or gets up long before you do and makes sure to get out the door before you’ve had your morning coffee. They may beg off on having extra work, but if that’s true, the work should be caught up soon. When it’s not, something is up. That’s when you start to ask why your spouse is working so late. Is that much overtime really necessary? And if they claim it is, make sure it shows up on their paycheck. Where are they going when they have fun? Perhaps they are out with friends and assured you they would have their cell phone, but you can’t get them for hours. When they do call you back, they are irritated that you called them. What were they really doing?You smell a new scent on their clothes. When you ask how someone else’s cologne or perfume got there, they don’t seem to have any idea how it happened – or they claim you’re paranoid. You drop a name and your spouse flinches. If you suspect a particular person is your spouse’s new flame, simply ask, “Who is_______?” Watch what happens as your spouse flounders for words. If they are wary, angry, worried or scared, you have your answer. Do any of these tips fit your spouse? If so, it’s time to look into more signs, and time to figure out how to catch them. Don’t be a victim of cheating for one more day!

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sparkleglitter asked:


My spouse says that he doesn’t answer blocked calls on his cell phone so when one comes thru it’s on silent mode and he closes it very suspicously. I have caught him cheating my me before when a girl text him a message and he said it was a friend and didn’t feel like talking to her. Could he be doing this again?

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JustMyOpinion asked:


I’ve been suspicious of my husband and a “friend” of his for several months. I’ve tried ignoring my feelings, but the “signs” are getting more frequent. He’s not very affectionate, he clings to his cell phone like it’s a lifeline, he’s always “too busy” to talk when he’s at work, the biggie for me was when I found a picture of her that she had sent to him on his phone (she was blowing him a kiss), she never calls the house, yet she’s always texting him, she and her husband have recently divorced and she’s worried that her husband may try to contact my husband (my thoughts are- if nothing is going on, why would her husband have anything to say to MY husband?!?)….there’s just a lot of little signs that I remember from when he cheated on me before we got married (Yeah, stupidly, I gave him another chance). What’s the best action to take here? I don’t want to put my foot in my mouth by accusing him, but I want answers.
I cannot bring myself to give him another chance if he IS cheating- he doesn’t deserve it. My big concern is our daughter- we have a toddler that I’m afraid will suffer. I’ve been able to work from home and spend a good bit of my days with her. I dread the thoughts of having to put her in daycare full time. He did wrong and I’ll end up feeling like a neglectful parent.
I offer him plenty (several times a week) chances at getting some “affection” from me- he usually turns it down, saying he’s “too tired”

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Susie Cooper asked:


How to Catch a Cheating Spouse with a Spy Phone

I just had this sinking feeling that my spouse was cheating on me. I could not shake it, it was like my gut instinct was really trying to hit me over the head with the reality that my spouse is having an affair with someone else. The two of them were just too good for me, I could not catch them in the act, I was never able to catch a secret meeting, find any evidence of telephone calls, and I never found any solid evidence that something sinister was going on.

Regardless of the lack of evidence, I just knew. Somehow, something inside me just knew that there was an affair going on right under my nose. I could tell by the change in attitude, the change in emotion, and the change in romance was the ultimate clue. My friends and family tell me it is just me, my spouse is not cheating on me, there has to be some other reason for the change, but I am here to tell you I knew it and I found a way to prove it.

One day I was on the internet doing some research and found a website called the Spy Shop and I was looking through their website, when I found this ingenious invention, the Spy Phone. Well my spouse had a birthday coming up and I knew it would be a great gift, they like cell phones and was needing a new one any way. However, my spouse would never know that I was using the cell phone to catch them cheating on me.

This was what I needed to prove that my imagination was not running wild and I was not insane. I chose the Interceptor, even though the Spy Phone came in two different choices. One was the Inceptor that I chose and the other was the SMS Catcher. The inceptor includes everything that the SMS catcher includes and more. You see with the SMS catcher, if they were using SMS text messaging only, this would be ideal. However, with the Inceptor, I could not only catch the SMS text messages, but also listen in on any phone calls, and listen to what both my spouse and their lover was saying.

So, I gave my spouse the cell phone for their birthday, and began my search for the truth. The first thing that happened was that my spouse sent an SMS message via the Spy Phone to the lover, I got a copy of it on my own cell phone. When the lover sent one back, I got a copy of that as well. Talk about hard proof.

One night my spouse left the room to talk on the Spy Phone, so I went to my own phone and dialed the special number I was given, and was able to hear everything that was said between them. They never even knew I was there, there was no indication that someone was listening to the conversation they were having.

To make a long story short, I finally had all the evidence and proof I needed. Needless to say, the Spy Phone taught me a very valuable lesson about my gut instincts.

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